Community Guidelines
Last updated November 2, 2026
Valentree is for real, in-person connection among adults who want to meet new people. These guidelines keep it welcoming and safe. They apply everywhere on Valentree - your profile, events, chat, chats with friends, Neighbourhood postings, businesses and listing chats, and the meetups themselves. Breaking them can lead to content removal, suspension, or removal from Valentree, and they are part of our Terms of Service.
Be respectful
Treat everyone the way you would want to be treated. People come from different backgrounds and show up to meet others in good faith - assume the best and be kind.
No harassment
Do not insult, bully, intimidate, stalk, or repeatedly contact someone who is not interested. Unwanted sexual advances, comments, or messages are not allowed. "No" means no - in chat and in person.
No discrimination or hate speech
No attacks, slurs, or dehumanizing content based on race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, disability, age, or any similar characteristic.
No spam
Do not repeatedly post the same content. Events should be genuine meetups, not a channel to push products or services, and Local posts are not ads. Selling, renting, hiring and promoting a business belong in the Neighbourhood's spaces: one posting per item, home or job, in the space and category it fits, with no chain letters, referral schemes or multi-level marketing.
No scams or fraud
Do not run deceptive schemes. Outside the honest price of something you posted in the Neighbourhood, never ask for money, gifts, payment details, or financial help. Never ask for a deposit before someone has seen a home or met an employer, never charge someone to apply for a job, and never ask anyone for a verification code.
Posting in the Neighbourhood
Post only your own things, homes, jobs and businesses, or ones you are allowed to post, and describe them honestly, with real photos. Do not post weapons, drugs, alcohol, tobacco or vaping products, prescription medicines, stolen, counterfeit or recalled goods, adult content or services, animals, or anyone's personal information. Housing and job postings must not discriminate. Jobs are for applicants 18 or older. Items in the Kids category are for children's things only, and childcare jobs are for adults who look after children. Mark a posting sold, rented or filled, or delete it, when it is no longer available.
No impersonation
Be yourself. Use your real name and a real, recent photo of you. Do not pretend to be someone else, create fake accounts, or misrepresent who you are.
Other members see your username instead of your name everywhere except your profile. Do not choose a username, or name a business or a posting profile, in a way that passes you off as another member, as Valentree, or as our staff or support. We ban accounts that do, and a banned account loses its username.
No illegal activity
Do not use Valentree to plan, promote, or carry out anything illegal, including organizing events whose purpose is unlawful. Follow the laws that apply where you are.
No dangerous or threatening behavior
No threats of violence, no encouraging self-harm, and nothing that puts someone's safety at risk. Do not bring weapons to meetups or behave in a way that endangers others.
Follow the event's plan
The person who creates an event describes what it is (the activity, the vibe, what to bring). Respect the plan, show up when you join, and let people know in advance if your plans change.
See something off? Report the conduct of someone you share an event with from within the app: open their profile from the event and tap Report this person. For anyone else, tap Report this person on their profile. To report a posting, a business or a posting profile, choose Report posting, Report business or Report profile from the three-dot menu on its page, and to report a chat about a posting or a chat with a friend, choose Report chat from the chat's three-dot menu. You can also email moderation@valentree.com. Block the member, or the business or profile in its chat, if you want no more messages from them. If you are ever in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first. Reports are reviewed, and we take action on violations.